You lay them next to each other and the difference is obvious. One twin is noticeably bigger, one is noticeably smaller, and every weigh-in turns into a worry about the little one.
A size gap between twins is one of the most common things twin parents notice, and much of the time it is nothing to fix. Twins share space and, in some cases, a placenta, so starting at different sizes is normal.
Track each baby on their own line
The trap is comparing the twins to each other. On a growth chart, each baby has their own curve, and the reassuring picture is each twin gaining steadily along their own line over weeks. Two different lines, both climbing, is a healthy pattern.
Know when to ask
Get a twin checked by your health visitor or doctor if they stop gaining, drop down through the centile lines, have fewer wet nappies, or feed poorly. A steady smaller twin who feeds well and has normal nappies is usually thriving at their own size, but you should always follow professional advice for your babies.